When i was a jw I really valued telling the truth and being an honest person.
When I was a
JW I had a framework of good morals because I was in fear of an invisible God
that would kill me if I stepped out of line.
But when I finally
left, I became free from being judge by an ancient God who was over ancient
people in an ancient culture.
Nevertheless
I still have a judge that I have to answer to, and that is the living people
whose lives are directly affected by my actions and whose actions directly
affect my life.
So I have
tried to develop a moral system that is neither dogmatically absolute nor
irrationally relative. My morality now is more of a tolerant ethic. So we should
try to live and love and learn to temper our conduct and temptations and do the
right thing.
If your BF
is not willing to trust you and work together with you to bring out the best in
you as a human being,---- is he the type of person that you want to be with 30
years down the road?
If instead
of helping you grow to be the best you can be as a person, and your BF literally
brings out the worst in you, then your life is going to be one big struggle?
Who you
decide to allow too take a part of your life will affect the person you will
eventually become.
You have to
set the rules on what is acceptable to your feelings and makeup. You have to
decide what makes you happy. If your BF
loves you, he will work with you. But if he doesn’t want to work with you, then
you have a decision to make.
